"Am I pretty enough?"
That is the question asked multiple times by multiple girls across the world.
"Am I pretty enough?"
No. You are not enough. You are more than enough. You make not think so but you are. Everyone has their own definition of the word enough. My definition and yours maybe two totally different definitions but the universal definition is adequate want or need. So no you may not be your own enough but you are somebody else's. The question that is always asked between girls is that question or more.
"Am I enough?" "Am I pretty enough?" "Am I skinny enough?"
The question we should ask those people is "enough? Enough of what or for who?" Most people ask that question because they are trying to impress someone. When someone asks you when they are "enough." You should look them dead in the face and say no you are not enough, you are MORE than enough.
Enough is a word that is satisfactory by someones need or want. Those are different levels of need and want. In God's eyes everyone is beautiful. No need to be enough, because everyone is more than enough. No girl should use the term enough because that is a term that is hurtful in ways.
Enough is mediocre nobody should shoo for enough. People should shoot for more than enough. If you think of yourself as the girl who is "enough" change that because you are always ALWAYS more than enough.
Girls are so caught up in societies image and wants of society that they never see the bigger picture. The bigger picture is that they are beautiful. They are alive and breathing and living life that is more than enough. That is what someone should be happy for. That is more than enough and someone should be grateful for. When you ask yourself if you are "enough" look in the mirror. Look don't look at the flaws you have, because everyone can see flaws; especially their own. Look past that. Look at the things that make you, you. Find something, one thing, that makes you you. Look at it and say that one thing is more than enough and everything else that you hate or despise about yourself makes you MORE than enough.
I can look at myself and say "one eye is bigger than the other as well as one ear. One nostril is smaller." And so on and so forth. Put all those flaws and imperfections together and you get me. A girl who is afraid to say she is more than enough but IS. I am more than enough in God's eyes as well as the people who are around me and love me FOR ME.
No you are not enough because you are way WAY more than enough. You are one person in this world that is amazing and is way past being enough. Do not ever forget that the next time you want to ask someone if you are enough.
"I wish we could see ourselves with God's eyes. Flawed, but still worthy of loving." -Anne. N
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